My wife is not interested in having sex with me for quite a long time.
Unfortuntely my desire is growing everyday. I could not help from sleeping with other ladies,which I know is against moral standard, but I can't live like a monk.
There is no way to perswade my wife to do anything about it as I have tried for many times.My solutions to this problem are outlined as follows:
1.divorce: the sacrifice is too much for us.It has to be scraped.
2.stop cheating my wife: Jesus, I am a man with normal sexual demand. I can't torture myself by having a life like a monk!
3.maintain marriage but indulge the sexual demand.Sometimes I can have an affair with a lady just for sex,or even prostitute. It seems to be the best solution for us.